Teen talk

Podcast for teens on Teenbook.in
 

-Brian Mendonca

Listening to teenagers holding forth on topics of their choice was an eye-opening experience. Students enjoyed sharing their views with others. It gave them a new sense of confidence. 

Haneefa said that acceptance is very important in life. 'It is ok not to be okay,' was the way she put it. She said that her main motive was 'to normalize not being okay.' She wanted the listeners to feel 'connected and comfortable.' 

Urmila missed being in college. She said that college is where memories are made. 

Sajida presented a farewell speech in school. She said that the future should be embraced, not feared. 

Priti flagged the rise of rapes in India. She offered tips for rape risk reduction like securing one's house and vehicle; fleeing from a potentially dangerous situation; and being responsible for one's own safety. 

Hard work was extolled by Mansi. She was of the the view that 'If you work hard enough for something you will eventually get where you want to be.' 

Jewel stressed the need for youth to be aware of gender and sexuality. She said that these issues need not be seen as taboo topics. It is irrational to have such fears, she felt. 

Jesica highlighted the power of believing in oneself.  'It is never too late to be what you might have been,' she advised. 

Divyasri rued how Goa is losing its traditional ways due to increased assimilation of new cultures. 'Technology has taken over culture,' she felt. 

'Where there is a will, there is a way,' felt Dorschel. To realize a dream, it is important to have one to begin with, she observed. 

Aliya felt that pollution is everywhere. It mainly affects those in large urban areas. Human activities have polluted water, air and soil, she felt. We should take small measures to control pollution. 

Mercia said that child abuse is India's best kept secret. Affected children are neglected and suffer physical and mental health issues. This denies the child the ability to cope with stress and learn new skills in life.

We should be grateful for life. It is a precious gift, counselled Bindiya. 'Life can be made more beautiful and purposeful by discharging our duties in our family, at work, society and the world at large,' she added. 

Rohini felt that corruption should be weeded out in India. What is sad is that it is being accepted as the norm nowadays. People are also afraid to speak out against it. 

Jayashri felt that advertising confuses rather than helps. They sell products based on our fears. 

Shakshi felt that social media has brought people together with one click. Yet 'oversharing can be an attack on our privacy,'

Time management and removing distractions are key factors to instill discipline in one's life said Lynn. Discipline in life is important to ensure focus, good health, and appropriate behaviour.

The importance of laughter cannot be overstressed. Leanna said that we should find reasons to laugh. We should face our problems with a positive attitude and enjoy life.

In a prescient presentation Dibya said that developed countries - rather than developing countries - should shoulder the blame for climate change. 

Hafsa believed that one should better the lot of the girl child. 'Every girl has a right to be educated,' she said.

Girls should not exploit boys, felt Arshdeep. 'Crimes can happen to anyone, regardless of gender.' she felt. Girls should not misuse Government laws to falsely implicate boys. 

Pooja warned the house of the outcomes of global warning. It is up to us to adopt a greenier and healthier lifestyle. 

If we adopt a healthier lifestyle we can say goodbye to high medical costs, argued Maiolica. We should also exercise regularly. After all, said Shaina, 'Health is wealth.'

Music can lift your spirits, felt Josina. Indeed, it is  a form of therapy. It keeps you from falling into depression.

Ariba urged us all to be planet warriors. She gave an account of the fate of a plastic bottle after it was used.

How many of us have not seen a child begging to eat food? This is a sad comment on poverty in India, stated Jayboon. She called upon everyone to do something for those who lack in food, clothing, shelter and sanitation.

Pooja M informed that time management is essential for improving efficiency. She called life 'a moving dream' and said it was important to structure it to achieve results.

Justice is based on love, said Sushmita. She felt that, 'Justice is an abstract ideal and every case in the real world is at least a bit different from every other.' Collective action for collective benefit is the answer.

Shryna defined the Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) as the tendency to compare one's regular life to the highlights in the lives of others. Don't compare, said Shryna. Be satisfied with what you have.

Mental illness affects 46% of teenagers informed Saniya. Young women experience a higher level of anxiety. It is important to maintain positive mental health.

The pandemic has made us feel confined - like animals in a zoo. Animals in zoos feel the same way, argued Geeta. Animals should not be kept in zoos.

'The difference between depression and joy is purpose' - pointed out Maya. Write down what your goals are in life and take small steps to achieve them. You will create new thoughts, patterns and habits.

Kushbu said that education ensures a positive world view. Despite the emphasis on a college degree, 'education is all around us in everything we do, so use it wisely,' she felt.

'We must all read on a daily basis for at least 30 minutes to enjoy the sweet fruits of reading,' said Valanie. Reading has many benefits like improving one's English; increasing knowledge; reducing stress; and boosting creativity.

Samiya advised all to read newspapers to stay informed and to widen one's perspective on life. She cited Lokmanya Tilak's use of newspapers to motivate people to fight against injustice.

Marital rape should be criminalized, felt Diksha. 'We as a society need to stop seeing marriages as life long consent,' she added. Inappropriate behaviour is a taste of what trauma marital rape entails.

Speaking on child labour in India, Priyanka coined the slogan 'A child is meant to learn, not earn.' Children under 14 should not be abused. Hazardous work puts at risk the physical, mental and moral well-being of the child.

Eulogizing teachers, Saisha said that a teacher not only teaches the students to earn a living. S/he also teaches the student to be a better person and make better decisions in life. Teachers shape the future of society. 

There were other topics like LGBTQ and the good old days. 
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Pic courtesy: economictimes.indiatimes.com. Updated 9 Feb 2022.

Comments

Urmila Sonar said…
Very nicely written sir! I love it! You mentioned each of us name that's so sweet and heart touching! Thank you sir! Keep writing..