Jar of Hearts


-Brian Mendonça

Who do you think you are
Runnin ‘round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart.
            
     Christina Perri ‘Jar of Hearts’

I heard ‘Jar of Hearts’ over a lazy dinner with friends.  I was struck by the title. Sung with verve, my friend seemed to embody the pain of the song-writer. We could follow the lyrics as they appeared on the huge karaoke screen.

The words of the song seemed to be melded in the morass of a break-up between two young people. Ignored by the man who once loved her, the woman accuses him of breaking so many hearts that he needs a jar to keep them in.

Karaoke helps singers to unwind. A selection of over a thousand songs enables them to pick the specific song to suit their mood. Backed by a superb sound system (this one had Bose speakers) you can’t help get the feeling that you are on stage. The karaoke even rates your performance and gives you a score out of 100 – complete with fanfare of trumpets.

Karaoke singers cannot do without singing, even when they are travelling. So they carry a nifty kit with the mikes et al so as not to miss a beat when they are away from home. These can be connected to the existing sound system in the place they are travelling to.

Karaoke is a big draw in restaurants. People young or old, married or single, cannot resist the urge to belt out a tune and savour a moment of glory. They have an appreciative audience, good food and the perfect ambience to pour the songs into their plates. Popular songs, sung even moderately well, get an (over)enthusiastic response once two pegs are down. So much so that the karaoke singer hired for the night has to be content to look on bemusedly.

Japanese musician Daisuke Inoue is credited with inventing karaoke in Japan in 1971. He won the tongue-in-cheek ig-Noble prize in 2004 for this achievement ‘thereby providing an entirely new way for people to learn to tolerate each other.’

Christina Perri’s black and white YouTube video of ‘Jar of Hearts’ (2011) is a powerful statement of a woman who fights back to save her dignity after being spurned. She walks out on the man who wants her back. Indeed on her website christinaperri.com she has tattooed on her right upper arm the words of Shakespeare, ‘To thine own self be true.’

Perri (b. 1986) is an American singer, songwriter from Pennsylvania. Assailed with feelings of suicide and depression, she implores, ‘It’s temporary. It’s always temporary. That feeling of free falling is always temporary. It’s the practice of saying, “This is awful, but you will make it through.” That’s what saves people’s lives.’

You’re gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don’t come back for me
Don’t come back at all.

- ‘Jar of Hearts’ (2011) Coda
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This article is inspired by karaoke singers Haver Vaz and Martina Da Costa.  Published in Gomantak Times Weekender, St. Inez, Goa on Sunday, 2 September 2018. Pix courtesy AOTY Album of the year.

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